![]() Rob complains about eating cheap food, but he’s usually happy to shop at Lidl so I don’t get why he cares. You have to prioritise their health, wellbeing and food before your own. But I can choose to live it up or to help my cats – and I choose the cats. Rob’s exaggerating about me spending all my money on the cats. I feel that I have to prioritise my cats’ health, wellbeing and diet over my own It’s her choice how she spends her money, of course, but I’d like to know she can pay for her half of things if we are making plans together. Lakshmi should stop spending so much on the cats and prioritise her finances. She once nearly missed a dentist appointment she’d waited a year for because Keira had a runny eye. We want to have a long holiday to celebrate our five-year anniversary and I’m worried that she’ll cancel if some unexpected cat expense comes up. Normally this works, but recently Lakshmi has complained about having no money. We split the cost of our holidays and going out. I once said the cats were getting heavy and she didn’t talk to me for two days. ![]() She also gets mad if I point out that five daily dishes of dry cat food for three cats – as well as extra treats – is too much. I eat cheap ham, but the cats have the finest. She spends loads on expensive cat food but gets annoyed if I don’t get the cheapest supermarket-brand food for us. Lakshmi will pay for a lot of the cat stuff, and I’ll take care of the human food. We’ve been together five years and keep our finances separate. She spends loads on expensive cat food but gets annoyed if I don’t get the cheapest supermarket-brand food for us We had to cancel our holiday after that, as Lakshmi didn’t have enough money left to go. When Fiona wasn’t eating normally, Lakshmi once spent £1,700 on scans, blood observations and checkups. She recently spent £400 on a wifi-controlled catflap. She has cancelled dinner dates, using the money to pay for cat food and vet bills. Lakshmi will spend her entire month’s wages on the cats. Lakshmi and I are very different in our attitudes towards the cats, but her stance affects us both. I had to move out of my home office, as it was turned into the cat’s bedroom. Lakshmi and I usually live apart, but moved in together for the duration of lockdown. We have Bella, Kiera and Fiona, who are a year old. I think of cats as pets, while my girlfriend, Lakshmi, refers to them as her “children”.
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